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  • January 29th, 2026
  • Kinky Desires of Maye from Des MoinesKinky Desires of Maye from Des Moines I'm Maye, and I have some wild kinks that I just can't wait to explore with the right person. If you're into BDSM, domination, and submission, then we might just be a perfect match! I love being a Mistress and taking control in the bedroom, but I also enjoy being a submissive and letting go of all...
  • Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM FunSubmissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun Hey there, I'm Shannan from Des Moines, Iowa. I am a submissive male looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I enjoy a variety of submissive kinks and fetishes such as whippings, roleplay, spankings, age play, c...
  • Transgender Beauty Looking for Love in Des MoinesTransgender Beauty Looking for Love in Des Moines Hey there! My name is Lauraine and I'm a transgender woman living in Des Moines, Iowa. I love being part of the LGBTQ community because it allows me to express my true self and connect with others who understand what it's like to be different. I'm looking for someone special to share fun times w...
  • January 28th, 2026
  • Alys: Seeking a Connection Beyond LabelsAlys: Seeking a Connection Beyond Labels Hey there! I'm Alys, a transgender woman living in Des Moines, Iowa. I love exploring the local art scene, grabbing a cup of coffee at Java Joe's, and taking walks along the riverwalk downtown. πŸŽ¨β˜•οΈπŸšΆβ€β™€οΈ I'm looking for someone who sees beyond gender and embraces all aspects of me. ...
  • Elegant Transgender Beauty Seeking Connection in Des MoinesElegant Transgender Beauty Seeking Connection in Des Moines Hey there! I'm Luana, a transgender woman living in Des Moines, Iowa. I love exploring the local art scene and trying out new restaurants downtown. As a member of the LGBTQ community, I appreciate the freedom to express my true self and connect with others who understand and support me. If you're ...