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  • January 29th, 2026
  • Kinky Desires and FetishesKinky Desires and Fetishes I'm Christa, a woman from Des Moines who loves exploring all kinds of kinks and fetishes. I enjoy BDSM, domination, submission, roleplay, spankings, and more. I love the thrill of pushing boundaries and trying new things in the bedroom. I'm always looking to connect with like-minded individuals w...
  • Explore Your Wildest Desires with KristaExplore Your Wildest Desires with Krista Hey there! I'm Krista from Des Moines, Iowa, and I have a unique fetish that really gets me going. I love exploring the world of Femdom, where I can take control and dominate my submissive partner. It's exhilarating to be in charge and see them submit to my every command. I'm a friendly and open-...
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  • Submissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM FunSubmissive Male Seeks Dominatrix for Kinky BDSM Fun Hey there, I'm Shannan from Des Moines, Iowa. I am a submissive male looking for a Dominant Female Mistress or Dominatrix to force me into submission and teach me how to please a Mistress properly. I enjoy a variety of submissive kinks and fetishes such as whippings, roleplay, spankings, age play, c...
  • Transgender Beauty Looking for Love in Des MoinesTransgender Beauty Looking for Love in Des Moines Hey there! My name is Lauraine and I'm a transgender woman living in Des Moines, Iowa. I love being part of the LGBTQ community because it allows me to express my true self and connect with others who understand what it's like to be different. I'm looking for someone special to share fun times w...